IMy mom is from Hong Kong and my dad is from New York but is Puerto Rican. One thing many people don’t realize about people who are mixed is the difficulty of finding a community or culture to feel fully a part of.
I don’t fully fit into the Chinese-American community nor the Puerto Rican/Hispanic one. Even among other mixed people, unless you find someone with the same mix of cultural backgrounds (pretty hard to do) one might identify more with one side while the other identifies more closely with the other.
It’s amazing to have access to multiple cultures and communities; yet, it feels as though I only have one foot in each.